Today we’re talking the INFJ, vindicated, and how the INFJ personality type makes amends after doing a dirty dirty. This isn’t one of those my-shit-doesn’t-stink INF J videos about this sage, mystic, ball of magical perfection. INFJs typically make amends in a very, very different way.
Many, if not most, INFJs believe in what goes around comes around; the reaping of what we’ve sown. Nobody leaves this life scot-free or damage-free. Even the strongest of us are prone. INFJ isn’t as angelic as most believe. Their softness and quietness, which gets misinterpreted as aloofness, sets them apart from so many in society who want, who need, to be seen. The INFJ may be an introvert but they are social creatures too, they just need to tuck away and reflect then recharge.
Here is a perfect example of what I mean in today’s episode. Let’s say the person the INFJ did wrong was an enemy, or at the bare minimum, not within their inner circle. Even if the INFJ holds no loyalty toward them, the INFJ will still feel guilt over a betrayal or a hurt caused either on purpose or unintentionally. Yes, even INFJs backstab on purpose. There’s always a valid reason to the punctures they cause. No matter how they’ve validated, or condoned, their wrongdoing, they still know they need to wash their hands clean of it in a moral way.
This is where the INFJ intuition kicks in. They know it’ll come back to them, so they’ll make amends with the universe rather than directly with their opponent or their victim. See, during the interactions with the enemy, at one point there was friendship even if it was only felt by the INFJ and that still means something. During that short relationship or series of interactions, the INFJ did show kindness and goodness. After a betrayal they may not be aware of, the INFJ has now just retaliated. Of course, two wrongs don’t make a right and INFJ knows this so they didn’t retaliate in a childish way like many other personality types tend to display, as the INFJ has the least amount of ego. However, that ego is still there so others must also reap what they sow.
Most of the time, INFJ will ghost you or just walk away, removing themselves from the toxic energy field of you. Sometimes, the INFJ will give it to you straight and tell you how things are. It wasn’t to cause the damage the other party feels but to get the point across to humans who do shitty things that shitty things aren’t accepted even if they are the norm. The depth of the hurt or crime depends on the capabilities of the other party to handle facts. Remember, facts do not care about feelings; they are facts regardless and for a reason. So, INFJ isn’t an asshole but rather a justice-seeker. If you got caught in the crossfires, that shit’s on you and you’d be the bigger person just owning it. INFJ owns their shit, flaws, misfires, blowups, and all.
Playing with Karma can be a dangerous game. Life is a game. Play it all wisely. If anybody carries the wisdom to make it out intact and better because of it, it’s the INFJ. See you next time.
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