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New Hampshire Locals Search for Harmony Montgomery on the Anniversary of the Day Her Body Was Disposed Of

Published March 03, 2024

We Are the Boots on the Ground in NH Helping to Find Harmony

After watching every minute of the State of NH v Adam Montgomery trial in February 2024 (Case No: 216-2022-CR-0020), I decided, as a local of New Hampshire, that I’d form a mini search party and look for Harmony’s body. After seeing a recent interview between Vinnie Politan of Court TV and Crystal Sorey, Harmony’s biological mother, and hearing Crystal was waiting until Spring to search for Harmony’s body, I decided why wait? Love doesn’t wait until Spring. Love searches today, yesterday, tomorrow…

My niece who I helped raise is close in age now to the age Harmony was murdered. My niece is now six; Harmony was killed on the very day she turned 5 1/2 years old. Being the case is so close to home- after all, I was born and raised in Manchester and currently live in Concord- and Harmony and my niece are the same age, it hit me harder than I thought it could. As mentioned, I’ve watched every single day of trial and followed the case since Harmony was reported missing in late 2021. I’ve seen every spirit session or voice box video on YouTube just to see what speculations were and all the interviews. I’ve gathered many dots and started connecting them on my own with the help of my sister who has also been heavily invested in this case.

Together, we have come up with a theory not yet discussed on any platform, not even by local law enforcement. The timing, the mileage of the U-Haul Adam rented to dispose of her body, the possible routes he took to the Tobin Bridge…it all has slowly come together. I don’t think Harmony’s body will ever be found. See our theory toward the end of this article and let us know what you think. I will be in touch with the Manchester Police Department with my findings.

As a disclaimer, I am not a sleuth. I’m an author, an audiobook narrator, a litter-picker-upper, and a local of New Hampshire. Digging deep into cases isn’t what I do…until now.

The Timeline of Harmony’s Short Life

Saturday, June 7, 2014: Harmony Renee Montgomery was born in Massachusetts to Crystal Sorey and Adam “Ace” Montgomery, both drug addicts who had been a couple for roughly four years. Harmony was diagnosed with holoprosencephaly, legally blind in both eyes and not expected to live past seven months.

September 2014: Harmony enters DCF (Division of Child and Family services) custody in Massachusetts and placed with Michelle Raftery and her husband Timothy of Haverhill, Massachusetts. The Raftery’s and Crystal kept a close relationship, and Harmony even called Michelle “mommy Michelle”.

2014-2018: Harmony stayed with the Raftery’s on and off during this time, on three separate occasions. First, Michelle had Harmony from the age of two months to four months. Harmony then went back with Crystal for an unknown amount of time (Michelle didn’t mention it during testimony) until she went back to Michelle again where she stayed for over 2 1/2 years. Harmony then went back with Crystal for 10 months and then back to Michelle for another 10 or so months. Under Michelle’s care, Harmony is re-diagnosed with septo optic dysplasia and given early supports and services. Due to Harmony’s special needs and Michelle’s frustration over “co-parenting a child with trauma” with the biological parent(s) and the State, the Rafferty’s gave Harmony up and she was placed into another, better-suited foster home. The last time the Raftery’s saw Harmony in person was in December 2018. Harmony reached every potty-training milestone while with Michelle and Crystal and hated to sit in a soiled diaper so seemed to potty-train herself.

In 2018, Crystal Sorey misses a court date (she is at another courthouse for custody of her son, Jamison, at the same exact time; her son Jamison was adopted by journalist Blair Miller and Jonathan Bobbitt-Miller who later asked to adopt Harmony) and Adam is granted sole custody of Harmony in February of 2019. He rubs it in Crystal’s face that he is in charge now. The family’s known residence was 77 Gilford St, Manchester, NH. Crystal never mentions why she hadn’t requested a different court appearance in advance knowing she had two court dates at the same time at two different courthouses.

Easter 2019: The last time Crystal saw Harmony via a video call with Adam briefly.

July 2019: The Montgomery’s are still at 77 Gilford St in Manchester along with Kevin Montgomery, Adam’s uncle (brother’s with Adam’s father, Michael Sr.). Kevin flies to Florida with his son to see his mother, who would be Adam’s grandmother, who just had triple bypass. Kevin stated during testimony he was gone for about three weeks and returned on either July 22 or July 23. Upon his arrival, he saw Harmony with a black eye. Kevin asked what happened and Adam stated he “bashed her around the fucking house” after discovering Harmony with her hand over her baby brother’s mouth while Adam had been in the bathroom. After seeing the black eye, Kevin told numerous family members (including Adam’s father), friends of Adams, the Rafterys, and DCYF (Division of Children, Youth and Families). Adam mentioned to Kevin that he was sorry for hitting Harmony. I believe Harmony was too young to be in charge of her baby brother and was covering his mouth to keep him quiet thinking she’d get in trouble if he cried.

Adam had custody of Harmony only a few months at this point and lived with Kevin. Kevin never witnessed Adam hurting Harmony before. It wasn’t until Kevin was away that Harmony displayed marks on her. Along with apologizing to Kevin for hitting her, he also mentioned to a future girlfriend (Katie Morin) that this was his big regret. This leads me to think this was the first time Adam physically laid hands on Harmony, since there were no witnesses, and it just didn’t stop after this. He saw her as too easy a target to take his frustrations out on.

Between August – December 2019: Adam and Kayla are evicted and living in the car. Due to the stress, among other factors including what he probably perceived as a betrayal when Uncle Kevin made a DCYF call, Adam’s temper must have flared. Due to countless stressors for Harmony- being shuffled around, living in a new home in a new state with new people, Adam’s temper, living in a car- she began having bathroom accidents in her pants. Most likely this was due to fear at having to ask Adam to find a bathroom.

Sunday, December 7, 2019 ~7am-12pm: Harmony dies at the hands of Adam Montgomery. Coincidentally, this is her brother Jamisons birthday weekend. Adam tells people he met up with Crystal to give her Harmony.

December 2019: Adam and Kayla bounce around, at one point at her aunt’s apartment where Harmony was stashed under a porch, and end up at Kayla’s mothers apartment with their two sons. Harmony’s body is placed into a red Igloo cooler in the hallway of the apartment building.

late 2019/early 2020: Adam and Kayla stay at the Families in Transition (FIT) shelter. Harmony’s body is shuffled around from car trunks to ceiling vents.

February 20, 2020: Adam and Kayla get an apartment at 644 Union St. in Manchester, NH.

February 26, 2020: Adam purchases a 40-pound bag of crushed limestone, a fuel grinder, a Diablo-brand blade and a battery which totaled roughly $400 paid in cash. Notice the blade brand- Diablo, meaning ‘devil’ in Spanish.

March 3, 2020: Adam messages a friend, Travis Beach, to rent him a U-haul. Travis recruits his friend, Brendon Middleton who had not known Adam prior, who rents it under his name. Two rooms are rented at the EconoLodge at 75 W.Hancock St in Manchester- Kayla and Adam stay in one room (Harmony’s body is placed in the refrigerator) and Travis stays in another room with Brittany Bedard, his girlfriend at the time. The rooms are rented with Brittany’s credit card. See below for receipts of the U-haul rental.

From Tuesday, March 3 to Wednesday, March 4, 2020, from the middle of the night to the early hours of the morning, Adam solely disposes of Harmony’s body in a U-Haul from Manchester NH to areas around Boston MA.

March 21, 2021: Kayla leaves Adam due to domestic violence and stays with her mom, Christina Lubin, in her first floor apartment with her two young sons.

July 2, 2021 ~7:45pm: Adam shows up to the property of Kayla’s mom at 258 Dubuque St. in Manchester prompting Kayla’s mother files a restraining order against him (the RO was dismissed on September 8, 2021 due to failure to request an extension). On July 4th, a steak knife was found on the ground by where Adam was knocking on the window at the front of the home, as witnessed by a neighbor, on July 2nd.

November 11, 2021: Adam and Kelsey (his girlfriend at the time, introduced via mutual friend Rebecca Maines) are picked up by Kelsey’s grandfather, Douglas Small, in Rochester, NH then brought to Carmel, Maine where they stayed with Douglas for several weeks.

November 2021: Crystal reports Harmony officially missing.

December 2021: The police have found Kayla and question her. Frantic, she messages Adam to rush back to Manchester NH ASAP so she wouldn’t have to ‘deal with this alone’. Kelsey’s grandfather loans them his Pontiac Grand Prix for the trip.

December 30, 2021: Adam, Kayla and Adam’s girlfriend at the time, Kelsey Small, use the eco-machine in Walmart at 725 Gold Street in Manchester to exchange old cell phones for money.

December 31, 2021: Adam is found at a parking lot on Harvell Street by Wolfe Park in Manchester with his girlfriend, Kelsey Small, in Kelsey’s grandfather’s Pontiac. Adam and Kelsey had been staying in Maine on Kelsey’s grandfathers property until Kayla messaged him to come to Manchester NH as soon as possible so she wouldn’t have to deal with questioning about Harmony alone.

January 5, 2022: Adam is arrested.

January 6, 2022: Kayla is arrested for scamming Department of Health and Human Services (DHHS) by claiming Harmony in order to receive state benefits.

March 13, 2022: Kelsey Small overdoses at the Econo Lodge in Manchester NH. The case is said to be unrelated to Harmony’s case and accidental, no further investigations occurred. Crystal Sorey speculates that Kelsey knew something about Harmony’s death and couldn’t handle it. Adam had to rush back to NH to get to his ex-partner/estranged wife then scramble around for cash. You’re telling me Kelsey asked no questions and that Adam gave no answers? Kelsey also mentioned that she and Adam had been together over a year when the police found Adam in her grandfather’s car on 12/31/21. If Kayla didn’t leave Adam until March 2021, did Adam cheat on Kayla with Kelsey (and this is one of the reasons Kayla hated Kelsey, along with her jealousy of her) or did Kelsey just screw up the dates?

June 2023: Adam is found guilty on gun charges and sentenced to 32 1/2 to 70 years in prison. He claims he did not kill Harmony, loves her “unconditionally” and looked forward to refuting the “offensive claims” at his upcoming trial.

July/August 2023: Adam is moved from the Valley Street jail in Manchester to the men’s prison in Concord NH (the state capital).

February 6, 2024: The State of New Hampshire v Adam Montgomery trial commences.

February 22, 2024: After about six hours of deliberation on both Feb, 21 and 22, Adam is unanimously found guilty by a jury of 10 women and 2 men on all counts- second-degree murder, falsifying evidence, second-degree assault, abuse of a corpse and witness tampering. Adam chose not to attend a single day of his own trial.

May 9, 2024: Adam’s sentencing date at Merrimack County Superior Court at 5 Court Street in Concord NH

Disappearance of Harmony Montgomery

From late 2019 to late 2021, Crystal reached out to several organizations, the mayor and Adam’s family members to find Harmony. The last sighting of Harmony by the state was in September 2019 while the Montgomery family was living at 77 Gilford Street, Manchester, NH and the last time Crystal saw her was via video call on or around Easter of 2019. It wasn’t until November of 2021 that Harmony was reported missing. By this time, Harmony had been missing for nearly two years.

In a matter of days, posters of Harmony were placed around the city of Manchester, NH and the search for her publicized on the local and national news. Within weeks of her official disappearance, the reward money skyrocketed. Numerous tips were called in the tip line and various searches took place from Manchester to Revere, Massachusetts. It wasn’t until a plea bargain was made with Kayla, Adam’s now-estranged wife, that crucial information was given to law enforcement that would lead to murder charges.

The Day Harmony Died

Sunday, December 7, 2019 ~7am: Adam and Kayla (along with their two sons, Declan and Seamus, and Harmony; 5 people total) head to the methadone clinic (Manchester Comprehensive Treatment Center at 20 Market Street, Manchester, NH). Adam and Kayla run in separately. When Adam returns to the Chrysler Sebring they were living in, he smells that Harmony has peed her pants and immediately starts punching Harmony in the head repeatedly. Kayla stated during testimony that Harmony was “crying a lot” and “moaning weird” in a ‘crying moaning’ way. Adam repeatedly shouts at her to “shut the fuck up” and “stop crying”. Kayla asks Adam to drive to Burger King because she is hungry.

After at least two to three stop lights, they arrive at the Burger King at 623 Second Street in Manchester where Harmony is placed under a blanket (she is still moaning). Adam orders hash browns and three croissants at the drive-thru. Kayla stated during testimony that Adam had one croissant, she placed another on Harmony in the backseat without looking, and had the third for herself where she broke pieces off for her two sons in the backseat, Declan and Seamus who were around 10 months and 2 1/2 years old at the time. Per conflicting testimony by Kayla, they either did drugs in the Burger King parking lot for roughly 20 minutes as they ate or they did the drugs (in Kayla’s testimony with the defense, she stated they did heroin and fentanyl and possibly crack but she couldn’t remember that; with the State, she stated they did heroin and crack) in the Colonial Village parking lot briefly. It was also stated by Kayla that Harmony was moaning before Burger King and after.

En route to an un-recalled destination (in her testimony, Kayla stated it could’ve been to look for money for drugs), the Sebring dies at the corner of Elm St and Webster St. Adam tries to wake Harmony up in the backseat but she doesn’t wake- she is dead. Was it a coincidence that the car died when it did or was that the exact moment Harmony passed away? Adam retrieves a duffel bag from the trunk and folds her body into it. It is daytime and Kayla waves cars around their disabled vehicle. They pack their necessities and load the two boys and walk to Colonial Village at 440 River Rd which is a 10-minute walk to Anthony Bodero’s residence.

Bodero drives them to the disabled Sebring around 12:30pm to gather more belongings and discover the tow truck is there. Bodero then allows them to sleep in his blue Audi S4 in the Colonial Village parking lot where they stayed for two days. Harmony’s body in the duffel bag is placed in a snowbank alongside a dumpster until Adam places it in the trunk of the Audi. Bodero never saw Harmony nor knew her body was on the premises.

Due to testimony and timing, Harmony Renee Montgomery passed away after 7am but most likely prior to noon on that dreadful Sunday December 7th 2019. Did her passing cause the Sebring to die?

The Journey of Harmony’s Dead Body

The Montgomery’s stayed in Bodero’s Audi for two days and then went to Kayla’s aunt. The bag with Harmony’s body is placed under a porch. Kayla then made a call to her mother, Christina Lubin, who picked them up in her minivan and drove them to her residence at 258 Dubuque St. Apt #1 (Manchester, NH) where they stayed temporarily. During this stay, Harmony’s body was placed in a red Igloo cooler in the hallway of Christina’s apartment building.

After this very brief stay, Adam and Kayla head to the Families in Transition (FIT) shelter located at 177 Lake Ave (Manchester, NH) where Harmony’s body was placed in the closet and then eventually the ceiling vent. When the heat was on, other shelter occupants reported a bad smell. Adam wraps the body in a black plastic trash bag to contain the leaking fluids. He uses the bathroom for several hours, according to Kayla, where he somehow crams Harmony’s body into the Catholic Medical Center (CMC) bag. Kayla stated the duffel bag goes missing and she believed Adam ditched it.

At this time, Adam had a job at Portland Pie located at 786 Elm St (Manchester, NH) for approximately two months. Sometime during his employment, he called Kayla and told her to bring Harmony’s body. She loaded the body in a bag and placed it in the boys’ stroller then walked about 15-minutes to Portland Pie. She met Adam at the backdoor and Kayla handed over the body. Inside, Adam placed her body in a freezer.

Adam brings Harmony’s body back to the FIT shelter. Adam mentions disposing of the duffel bag in a trash that was not theirs, meaning some random trash can or dumpster somewhere, but does not dump Harmony just yet. It was at this FIT shelter Adam and Kayla’s third child together was conceived (Kiera). Crystal speculated during her Court TV interview that this child was a girl “because that’s how God works”.

Adam and Kayla got an apartment at 644 Union Street, on the second floor, where they moved in on February 20, 2020. Harmony was not put onto the lease despite Kayla claiming Harmony on her 2019 income taxes at Adam’s request. Harmony’s body is placed in the refrigerator. Adam mentions dismemberment to Kayla by way of a power saw and a Nutri-bullet blender. On February 26, Adam purchased tools at Home Depot. One night, Adam placed Harmony’s body in the bathtub where he and Kayla disrobed her using scissors. Harmony had been wearing her leggings and a hoodie. Kayla eventually left the bathroom because she “couldn’t handle it” and “didn’t want to see anything”. Kayla stated Adam was in the bathroom with Harmony’s body for hours but she couldn’t hear a thing due to their neighbor playing loud music as this neighbor often did. Adam ran hot water on Harmony’s body with the shower to thaw her body. Kayla recalls Harmony’s body being very bruised and just a layer of skin over bone.

On Tuesday March 3rd, 2020, Adam messaged an old friend, Travis Beach, to help him get a U-haul. Travis then recruited his buddy, Brendon Middleton, to help with the rental. The U-haul was rented under Brendon’s name with Travis Beach’s girlfriends (Brittany Bedard) credit card. Two rooms are rented at the Econo Lodge located at 75 W. Hancock St. (Manchester) with Brittany’s card. Adam and Kayla sleep in one room with their sons while Travis and Brittany stay in the other. In Adam and Kayla’s room, Harmony’s body is placed in the refrigerator. In the “middle of the night”, as Kayla testified during the trial, Adam left the Econo Lodge alone in the U-haul and did not return until the sun came up on March 4th, 2020.

The Disposal of Harmony’s Body

On Wednesday March 4, 2020, Adam’s U-haul was spotted via toll footage at the Tobin Bridge in Boston, Massachusetts at 4:44am northbound, southbound at 4:45am, then northbound again at 5:25am. Total mileage was 133 miles roundtrip. Total mileage from the Econo Lodge in Manchester NH to the Tobin Bridge in Boston is 54 miles and approximately 55 minutes of drive time depending on traffic. Being this was a Wednesday prior to 5am, traffic was most likely light or close to non-existent outside of the city.

If Adam took a direct route on Interstate 93, that would make the roundtrip mileage 108, leaving Adam roughly 25-26 miles of missing time. This is the most likely route since there are no toll plazas. Since the U-haul was not spotted at any New Hampshire toll, Adam could have avoided the toll by using the Everett Turnpike’s Manchester Airport exit and looping back around. On this route, this would be 60 miles one-way and approximately 1 hour and 6 minutes of drive time. Roundtrip would equal 120 miles, leaving 13 miles of missing time. Adam could have also gone southbound via a network of back roads.

Based on mileage, this is the search area:

Theories of Where Harmony’s Body Is

Law enforcement has thoroughly searched the Rumney Marsh Reservation in Saugus. This is 6.8-miles from the Tobin Bridge (roughly 13 minutes of drive time). I believe this search was based off that U-haul mileage and timing.

My personal theory is that, if Adam left “in the middle of the night” on March 3-March 4, 2020, and didn’t arrive at the Tobin Bridge until 4:44am, this leaves him plenty of time to drive random backroads along the way (most likely in New Hampshire) to dispose of her body in dumpsters. After all, he had previously mentioned discarding of items related to her death in random trash. He may have driven toward his old neighborhood (Revere, MA) or the Tobin Bridge to meet someone, to throw the police off track should they catch on, or to dispose of the body in Massachusetts either because it’s where Harmony’s mother lives or a familiar place far enough away from Manchester NH where the murder occurred. This way, if the body was ever found, it could be blamed on Crystal and Adam could have an alibi.

Remember, Econo Lodge in Manchester NH to Tobin Bridge in Boston is 54-60 miles one-way, leaving Adam anywhere from 13 to 26 miles of missing time (missing time meaning where did he go during this time?). The timing would lead me to believe he drove about 20 minutes away from the Tobin Bridge if he went to this place directly. During this time, I speculate he either got lost, saw someone, got high, stopped somewhere to gather his thoughts, or did so to throw law enforcement off track.

Along the possible routes he took, in New Hampshire and Massachusetts, he could have disposed of the body or body parts, the saw he purchased at Home Depot on February 26 2020, the duffel bag, and the CMC bag all in different random places. During testimony, Kayla had mentioned several black plastic trash bags with lime put into them, so there could be several body parts to look for. Considering how paranoid Adam was of getting caught, he wouldn’t just dump Harmony in the elements or bury her. Remember, he kept Harmony’s body with him for over two months postmortem due to this paranoia. It’d be too risky. I hypothesize Adam would’ve been more tricky about it, more criminal about it, and put the evidence in places they wouldn’t be easily spotted or found. Don’t forget, during trial, a phone call of Adam’s was played where he stated the search for Harmonys body was a waste of time. Landfills, incinerators, sewage processing plants, etc, would be good starting points for remnants of evidence or DNA samples.

Based off this speculation, the most likely scenario is Harmony and the evidence related to her murder were disposed of in the garbage (trash barrels and/or heavily used dumpsters by businesses or apartment complexes) where they now probably sit in a landfill somewhere. After almost four years, the evidence would be deeply buried or long-ago burnt.

The landfills along the possible routes are:

Is Adam Montgomery a Serial Killer?!

Based on Adam’s teardrop alone, many people theorize of gang ties, prison time or murder. Looking back into Adam’s criminal history, murder isn’t too far fetched. On February 10, 2008, he may have shot and killed Darlin Guzman in Lynn, Massachusetts outside of a convenience store in Austin Square during a drug deal gone wrong. As of February 2024, it has been rumored that the Guzman is waiting to pursue charges until Harmony’s body is found as they see her as the priority considering her age and circumstances.

Again in 2008, Adam burst into a Malden, MA apartment and held two women at gunpoint demanding money. Same year, in May, he stabbed a youth in the leg and pushed him out of a moving vehicle near Bridge Street and Belmont Street in Manchester, NH because Adam felt this person sold him fake drugs.

Fast forward, in early 2014 (February or March), Adam shot a man (unnamed from Haverhill, MA) in the head in Manchester NH. That man had come to NH for drugs and did survive.

These serious charges are just a drop in the bucket and the ones we know about. What about the ones that were never reported? Adam, after all, hung around drug addicts with poor education. These aren’t the type of people to trust the police to report a crime. Adam has a lengthy list of charges ranging from robbery to murder in both Massachusetts and New Hampshire. He is, as the State of New Hampshire puts it, a career criminal.

Other Facts Related to the Defendant

Kelsey Small overdosed on March 13,2022 at the Econo Lodge (this was 2 months after Adam’s 12/31/21 questioning in the Harvell Street parking log and his 1/5/22 arrest). Crystal stated with Vinnie Politan on Court TV that she thinks Kelsey knew too much and couldn’t handle it. I believe they loved each other or Kelsey at least loved Adam and that Adam saw Kelsey as his new chance. She was, after all, unlike all the other women he’d dated. Kelsey was thin, fit, blonde, attractive. But she was also an alcoholic hence her and Adam’s connection. Adam and Kelsey had been introduced by a mutual friend, Rebecca Maines, who testified during the trial that Adam hated Harmony “to his core” because she reminded him of her mother.

Adam’s dad, Michael Montgomery Sr., overdosed on February 19, 2024 during trial and just before the verdict which took place 2/22/24 (Michael from Revere and moved to Florida in 2019); he, too, probably couldn’t handle all the truths that spewed out about his son. Kevin Montgomery, Michael’s brother and the uncle who lived with Adam at 77 Gilford St. also admitted he didn’t want to testify. Maybe going against family was looked down on in the Montgomery clan and this, too, was something Michael, Sr. could not handle.

Adam tends to date women starting with a K-sound- Crystal Sorey, mother of Harmony, who he was with for 4+ years; Katie Morin, born 1978 who dated a while after meeting at a recovery house and who had asked Adam to move to Maine with her but he had declined; Kayla, estranged wife; and Kelsey Small, his girlfriend at the time he was apprehended.

Harmony was in foster care with her biological brother, Jamison. Coincidentally, Jamison was adopted to a loving family whilst Harmony was given to Adam. The family who adopted Jamison later asked to adopt Harmony but was told she had been reunified with her family. The weekend Harmony died (Dec. 7, 2019, a Sunday) was the same weekend Jamison was celebrating his birthday- one life lost while the other was ringing in another year.

The loves of Harmony’s life: school when she got to go (she chose to wear a shiny dress her first day), her brother Jamison, Minnie Mouse and leaving her sparkle wherever she went.

For TIPS on the Harmony Montgomery case:

Contact one of the following:

Detective Jack Dunleavy at (603) 792-5561

Manchester NH Police Dept at (603) 668-8711

Harmony Montgomery dedicated tip line at (603) 932-8997

To watch our YouTube videos related to Harmony Montgomery, some that will be uploaded at a later date in March 2024, subscribe to my channel or jump right to the Part 1 and Part 2. If you have theories of your own and want some boots on the ground in New Hampshire and Massachusetts, contact us at infj@theknight.site. A PDF of my Harmony investigation will be uploaded soon equipped with receipts, images, dates/times and details.

In memory of Harmony Renee, today, March 3rd, 2024, I publish this article and my troop and I take a journey. A journey taken before by Adam Montgomery. We will be going to the key places in Harmony’s short life and we will be taking the route Adam most likely took from Manchester NH to the Tobin Bridge that fateful night exactly four years ago. Along the way, we will search and place our feet into Adam’s shoes for the sake of Harmony.

Published with sincere intent and love,
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HARMONY RENEE

June 7, 2014- December 7, 2019

Our Hypersexual and Shallow Society | Booze, Babes and (.)(.)’s

DISCLAIMER: All blogs are transcripts of the accompanying YouTube video as seen on Channel 11 INFJ (scroll to bottom of page to view video). All content is for entertainment purposes only.

Everywhere I look it’s sex sex sex yet I keep seeing sex being censored. What the fuck is it with society’s ass backwards mentality? It’s constantly ‘do as I say not what I do’. 

Let’s begin with alcohol. People always wanna hit the bar or grab a drink. It’s seen as cool and fun and carefree but it’s not. That lifestyle is full of insecurity and a wish to not just fit in but reign. Almost every mixed drink on the menu has to do with sex. Suck, Bank ‘N Blo; Angel’s Tit; Bend Over Shirley; Liquid Viagra; Sex on the Beach, my favorite mixed drink back in the day by the way along with Bahama Mama. I very rarely drank because I have Asian flush and I haven’t had a sip in over 7-ish years because I just don’t like feeling drunk. Things that shut down the brain as opposed to awaken or exercise it aren’t my jam. Not to mention that alcohol doesn’t seem like something that will benefit my body but rather something that would eventually weigh it down. People never have water guts, right? They have beer guts.

Now, let’s move on to porn. It doesn’t need to be said it’s everywhere and easily accessible. It used to be that if you wanted something, you worked for it. Nowadays, why approach someone for a date when you can swipe? Nowadays, flirting is seen and mis-labeled as ‘harassment’. It is no longer about the person’s vibe, it’s about their persona and appearance. Besides, all their pheromones are covered up with artificial scents and toxins, so now we only have our eyes to judge with instead of using our other senses like in the good old days.

This all affects the youth population. Little girls get into the whole hair, nails, makeup, dress up thing really young. My niece just turned 5 and she’s even into it. This isn’t from instinct, it’s from exposure. How can we encourage our children to love themselves just the way they are whilst layering makeup on our own faces? How can we encourage our children to love thy neighbor knowing those neighbors are all wearing facades while also preaching to them to be selective with their love? We can tell them to grow up and be the change they want to see but unless we do so, as their example, it’s monkey see monkey do. This is how cliques are formed, where the rules of conformity are more rigid. Kids now strive to be hot and hip, dreams full of YouTube stardom, hoping one day to fuck the right person on tape and send that shit viral so that in 10, 20 years they, too, can be a billionaire. How many conservationists do you see go viral? How many BookTubers do you see bank millions? Right.

Then as these children grow into teenagers, things like clothes, hair, makeup, popularity, extroversion, etc become more important. It’s pushing adult things onto them instead of these things developing naturally. No wonder kids are dating so soon and losing your virginity after 16 is seen as weird or uncool. If we say our body is a temple, we can’t be teaching that the public is welcome. We need to be setting the example that only those who share our virtues are welcome in.

Society praising shallow people or things is shifting our internal energy which, in turn, affects the collective energy. Just as each individual carries their own energy, each species or group does too. We know this aspect as ‘culture’. Valuing, desiring, worshipping the materialistic or the shallow shifts energy from the top of the body like the mind and heart – the crown, third eye, throat and heart chakras – to the lower regions- solar plexus and sacral, where anxiety and sex are.

Think about it this way. When you filter water, the gunk lands on the bottom because of gravity. When you do body flushes to release the toxins from your body, they either come out your ass or your feet. The bottom is where life begins and ends.

Think about it like this too. Things grow from the bottom up. A tree, a vegetable, sentient beings. We begin our lives on the ground from within the ground then eventually grow skywards. We grow for a reason. Growth indicates nourishment, health, strength. Humans went through 5-7 million years of development and climbing hills of knowledge just to shrink and sink back down again. We went from caves to houses equipped with luxury like indoor plumbing and heat. By focusing on the sexual, we keep ourselves at ground level instead of higher where flight and fantasy take place. We condone this favoritism of the basic by shielding it with labels like ’empowerment’, and if you aren’t hypersexual you’re a ‘prude’. 

This is making us all materialistic. We care about what we drive, where we live, who we’re seen with, what kind of stuff we have. We add filters to our photos, our faces, our bodies, our voice. We feel we have to, standing out usually has shit repercussions. Ask yourself, in this super sexual society, who do you think your love interest will choose – you with your sweaty pits and hiking boots on or the person pounding booze and dancing surrounded by a group of hooting and hollering fans and simps? Life is hard. Serious things are a bummer. To most, it’s living in the moment with the herd. To a rare few, life is way deeper with deep authentic intention for the greater good of the herd. Change is nice but let’s ask ourselves – is it really possible if we keep wishing and just talking about it instead of making a constant conscious effort for it and actually reach for the star? Actions speak louder than words. If you want to move mountains, you should learn to climb them too. I’d love to see more groups of friends hiking a trail or picking up trash from a beach, no cameras but in person in reality. 

I wish we could all be like kids in the playground and run up to a stranger and excitedly say “Hey! Wanna play?!” Nothing sexy, no facades, just unashamed escapes of farts and crusty faces and squeaks of joy. Kids don’t see things like race or social status, what kind of clothes you’re wearing or if you have a cool car, or the appearance or size of ones private parts- they just want to make friends. They don’t care about cleavage or dresses that seem painted on or how many likes they get on Instagram. If you ask me, they’re the ones truly living in the moment. It’s up to us to shape them into people of depth and substance, with big minds and bigger thoughts, to move the herd forward and skywards. 

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The ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’… INFJ: The Bog of Eternal Stench

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Generally, sadness is seen as negative, dark, gloomy. People gravitate towards happy, bouncy, carefree, fun people. Sun seems like the magnet, darkness a deterrent. The way I see it, things refresh at night, in the darkness. Life gets renewed. Once you accept the dark and succumb to it, magical things happen. When you succumb to it and sleep, brain and spinal fluids flush the body to repair the damage from the day. Dreams happen. We’re finally at a stillness, a comfortable solitude. The world is finally quiet, at peace.

When you feel sad, toxic chemicals enter the blood which counteracts all that healing we had throughout the night. Our lives seem a vicious chemical cycle of good in, bad in, bad out. While the average person feels sad, the INFJ feels utterly sad. It causes brain fog, an inability to focus then concentrate, and a tendency to dwell. INFJs are deep feelers. Thus, crying is inevitable. Many only weep privately but most can’t help it publicly too. This, by no means, indicates they’re comfortable doing so around others. In fact, most feel embarrassed afterwards. Mostly, this has to do with their past and the company they keep, keeping in mind that the INFJ tends to attract people who aren’t so good for them. The link between somebody’s past and their present INFJ personality is clear. Becoming the world’s rarest personality type doesn’t just happen out of the blue, it happens as a result of the black.

See, INFJs don’t just live within their own feelings, they live within the feelings and energy of those around them. INFJs don’t just dwell on their own hardships, their minds are also on the hardships seen and unseen worldwide. What I mean by unseen is that the INFJ is the type to feel authentic sadness for tribulations others don’t really think about- poor souls in African slums sniffing glue, how humans are responsible for so much devastation yet don’t realize it, wild horses in the western US being rounded up and sold for no reason. INFJs are very investigatory, curious. They need a whole picture – like world news – instead of just a slice- like the local news. All this information translates to emotions. If an INFJ is made to withhold it, it either becomes lava or mud. It either makes them explode, as opposed to trickle out, or wallow, weighed down by heavy gunk. 

This isn’t healthy. An INFJ just can’t brush off that sadness. While it sticks to most people at a surface level or skin deep, it has now become a part of the INFJs internal being. Sadness runs through their veins. Just as a car relies on it’s fluids to operate smoothly, the body does too. Louis CK once said “sadness is poetic”. He was right. A car gets rid of defective fuel or bad oil by flushing it or driving until it runs out. The human burns it off the same, by expending energy. Most people can do this by pounding beer and checking out hotties with the crew or by crying it out by watching sad movies or listening to sad songs. The INFJ cannot. They work differently. 

The INFJ must allow themselves to feel their pain, to live in their sorrows. They have an insatiable need to be heard, understood, yet never or so very rarely getting that adds to their tragedy. It could cause that lava to boil but INFJs lean more toward mud than lava. When you think of mud, most think of swampy places where it’s stinky and they get their shoes dirty trekking through it. Try to think of INFJ more like a bog. Sure, the mud reeks a little but go deeper. That mud nourishes plants which nourishes bugs and birds and other wildlife. A bog is a place of past abundance, current regrowth, and new future landscapes. Once you can allow yourself to feel the sadness, you understand it. Once you understand it, you can find solace in it. New energy, new balance, new life. 

The sadness will still suck. The hurt will still weigh a ton. But once the reasons behind it and the journey that led to being you is truly realized and understood, managing the sadness and not projecting it becomes easier. Use your natural talents to get the energy out. Use it in conjunction with your purpose. If you ever doubt your purpose, dig a little deeper and think about it long and hard, then suddenly it’ll hit you like that a-ha! moment Oprah talks about. INFJs definitely know their destiny. Paint it out, write it out, draw it out, hike it out. Hold it but don’t hold onto it. 

if you’re having a shit day or feeling like the mud, think about the bog. As long as you’re planting the right seeds, one day soon, you too will become a new landscape. Thanks for being here. Your lady Sadie checking out. Until next time.

7 INFJs Who Made the World a Better Place (Thanksgiving Special 2022)

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Happy Thanksgiving. It doesn’t need to be said to always be grateful for who and what you have, be true to your authentic self, never be afraid to walk alone as long as that path feeds your soul, and, if you’re eating turkey, thank the life on your plate that nourished you. Ok INFJ’s, let’s hit it. Seven INFJs who made the world a better place

7) NOAM CHOMSKY

Sometimes called “the father of modern linguistics”, Chomsky is also a major figure in analytic philosophy and one of the founders of the field of cognitive science. Talk about paving paths!

6) MAHATMA GANDHI

Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi was an Indian lawyer, anti-colonial nationalist and political ethicist who employed nonviolent resistance to lead the successful campaign for India’s independence from British rule, and to later inspire movements for civil rights and freedom across the world

5) EDWARD SNOWDEN.

American former computer intelligence consultant who leaked highly classified information from the National Security Agency (NSA) in 2013, when he was an employee and subcontractor. His illegal disclosures revealed numerous global surveillance programs. A whistleblower who let us all in on the fact that we’re all guinea pigs in this video game we call life.

4) ALEKSANDR SOLZHENITSYN

outspoken critic of communism and helped to raise global awareness of political repression in the Soviet Union, in particular the Gulag system outspoken critic of communism and helped to raise global awareness of political repression in the Soviet Union, in particular the Gulag system

3) J. K ROWLING

A philanthropist and author of about 25 highly-acclaimed books. She went from functioning poor to drowning in millions. She inspired a whole generation with stories of fantasy and magic, of heroes and villains that look and act just like us.

2) NELSON MANDELA

He joined the African National Congress in 1944 and was engaged in resistance against the ruling National Partyโ€™s apartheid policies after 1948. Apartheidย was a system of institutionalised racial segregation that existed in Southย Africaย and South Westย Africaย (now Namibia) from 1948 to the early 1990s

1) JANE GOODALL

As an INFJ, who better deserves the #1 spot than this gal? An anthropologist and primatologist. With a love for chimpanzees, she helped us all find acceptance in other species as well as our own. She didn’t just live with the chimps, she walked miles in their shoes. A huge advocate for nature and our Earth, her mission in life is conservation. How much more INFJ can you get than that?

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ACE INFJ’s with cPTSD and/or PMDD, this is for you!

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ACE INFJs with cPTSD and/or PMDD, this is for you! We’ll keep it short and tidy.

In a nutshell, this super rare class of people have learned to perform instead of bond. One or both

parents screwed us over so we see love as conditional and relationships as inauthentic. It’s not just

day-by-day battle, it’s moment by moment.

Childhood is all about discovery and safety, a phase of gaining our footing. If you’re an ACE child,

know that 8 of these are checked off (see video for CHART). Stick a weak seed in raggedy ass soil and not enough sunlight, a tree may not grow to it’s potential. If you’re an INFJ, you know all about this (see video for CHART). Now add cPTSD which means you meet this criteria (see video for CHART) because of this (see video for LIST OF CAUSES), this makes sense as a part of your dark side (see video for ACE & cPTSD charts) and this makes sense as your light side . But because of all this (see video for CHARTS), you’re predisposed to this if you’re a female (see video for PMDD chart) chart. ACE and cPTSD pretty much go hand-in-hand and create cycles of early life. We must keep in mind that a traumatic early start to life leads to a lifetime of hurdles in later life. Trauma changes brain chemistry and biological makeup. Being INFJ with their ability to feel things at their core, the PMDD creates a cycle later in life that consists of slicing, dicing, repairing and remorse. It causes one to look too deeply, to search for the answers in questionable places, to strive to lead when being the first follower holds just as much value, to be skeptical of love, to be shaken by the depth of their hurt, to be cautious of everything and everyone. Common traits: a shoddy upbringing with even cruddier parents/caregivers. These people are old wise souls, trail blazer if only they’d release themselves of these burdens they tow along everywhere.

These are all current introverts who are either ambiverts with prominent introversion or former extroverts. These are deep feelers with excellent attention to detail and exceptional intuition. They’re social creatures being that they’re human yet definitely need alone time in order to compartmentalize events and feelings. They’re pensive, a bit melancholy, contemplative, This comes from lived experience. They are hyper vigilant in the now, skeptical of tomorrow, all based on yesterdays. The natural born sparkle had been dimmed by those who hurt them without regard, used them, abused them, left them in the dust. All the hurt that hurt more by being a deep feeler caused cracks in their shells, a bleak outlook. So where does all this hurt come from anyway? And why does it hurt at such a deep level? Because victims of childhood trauma and/or abuse gives us a certain aura. It causes an individuals to turn either dark, with a ‘fuck the world’ type of attitude that stems from a lifetime of bullshit. Monkey see, monkey do. Or to become super soft, sensitive, vulnerable in a way. Not to mention most of the outside world sees us as mysterious and sometimes weird. Being quiet yet vocal when they see good use for their voice and being super tough yet undeniably sensitive all gives off a vibe of inauthenticity. But I absolutely beg to differ. This means these people, if they take the right path, are eclectic not disingenuous. Reminds me of the Gemini stereotype. I’m one. People always go โ€œeww Geminis are two-faced!โ€ without understanding it isn’t being two-faced in the stab-you-in-the-back, shit-in-your-soda, steal-you-man type of two-faced but, rather, having multiple perceptions on things. So, two faces, yes. Two-faced, no.

Being highly empathetic, a ‘been there done that’ thing, causes victims to become a magnet to other broken souls. They attract narcissists, addicts, misfits, the misunderstood. If you are an INFJ, or an NF personality type in general, you want to touch, to feel, to heal. Often times, these types walk alongside the downtrodden or the lost, for miles and miles without regard to their own tattered shoes and calluses. Also, while most people are able to burn bridges so fast, ACE INFJ’s with cPTSD aren’t so quick to do this. We know how it feels to be drowning while watching seas of other humans filming us while clinging to a life raft they never offer to us. The thoughts of others in the darkness never finding the light is daunting to us. If you add PMDD to all this mess, you get all the feelings and emotions time zillion. It adds a blinding rage to the mix that’s difficult, if not impossible to see through while you’re living through it. All that coiled up sadness, anger, etc come spewing out without warning, without reprieve. But, keeping this all in mind while remembering that like attracts like, be conscious of the triggers and actively work at it, day by day. Eventually, you’ll attract whole people who’ve walked through the jungle but made it out instead of broken people who prefer the familiar feelings of pain and loss over fulfillment and hope considering the latter has never proved to pan out in the past. Due to their protectors constantly crossing boundaries, they’re hyper sensitive so every pin prick will feel like a slice from a sword. The depression these people feel come in many forms, particularly chronic depression and reactive.

Being this type of person is misunderstood and those who do get it find all that trauma intimidating and, often times, unflattering. In today’s society, you can say all you want that it’s okay to be broke they’ll always be there should you call but we all know the truth- that being damaged goods isn’t accepted with open arms, that when we call you may not answer because why should anything rain your parade? This “not my monkey, not my circus” mentality is shit yet we all think it. If the Good Samaritan Law wasn’t a thing, I’m not so confident I’d see lives being saved on the news. It’s a dog eat dog world while looking out for your pack.

Now if you’re one of these people, heal yourself first before you even think about procreating. It’s selfish to pass on unhealthy genes. Not all disabilities are visible to the naked eye, some are only visible to a naked soul. To be in a relationship with one of these people, you can’t just talk about the weather. Talk about the meaning behind the storms. You can’t tit for tat. Swallow the tit knowing that redemption does exist. Empathy, support, nurturing, communication and patience go a long way. If you’re dating an ACE cPTSD who’s INFJ with PMDD and they’re pissing you the F off, just say this: โ€œHoney, we’re both seeing red right now and I don’t want to say anything I’ll regret later. I’m going take off for a while until I calm down. I promise I will be back and I love you.โ€ That’s it. That’s all you have to say, then remove yourself from the situation. Here it is again. Take a screenshot or pause this bad boy and grab your notebook and pencil. This way you won’t be tempted to tit for tat. Since when has adding fire to fire fanned a flame, hmmm? And this way the sufferer won’t take it to heart, overwhelmed with a fear of abandonment. Being who they are, experiencing what they have, people tend to leave them- sometimes with a shitty explanation and serious attitude, other times without a single word. Poof! Ghosted. Don’t prove to them their notions of being unworthy are true by leaving without a guarantee of return.

These people need to talk it out, write it out. Let them feel. Let them write it out first, toss that word salad around. Then eventually they’ll run out of dark clouds and start dwelling on the stars and the sunshine. Proper love, though still conditional, will help bring the magic back. If we’re patient and understanding with our house plants, why can’t we be that way with our trees? (see video for QUOTE). Don’t block the sunlight and be the soil. We are the seedlings.

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Haunted Houses are Disrespectful

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So, lemme ask you a question- if you wanted to rest in peace, would it be cool to you for a bunch of strangers to come barging in without being invited? I don’t see ghosts mailing out invitations saying โ€œhey, Happy Halloween, come bother the shit out of meโ€, do you? I know Halloween is one of those weird holidays where we do stupid shit like get candy from strangers without regard to if they can afford to splurge on a bunch of ungrateful strangers themselves? Our parents told us not to take stuff from strangers, especially food, so why the hell is this okay? It’s greedy if you ask me. You didn’t ask me but it’s my channel so there’s my two cents anyway. Our society is so crazy, we pay people to go to a place that’s supposedly haunted without regard to the souls who are already there, unseen. Maybe you’re stressing those spirits out. Maybe you’re disrupting their peace, that solitude and quiet they need to sort out what the fuck happened and what the hell to do next. Also, you’re adding your own energy to the existing energy in the location you’re visiting. Ever heard of the fae? Those faeries from folklore that wreck shit up when you disrupt their nature? Natives used to believe if you go into the forest, you take nothing without leaving something worthwhile first. This is the same concept. To go to a haunted location without the correct intent and purpose is disrespectful. Sad part is many see it as merely entertainment instead of something to be respected. It’s like going to the graveyard and having a party without ever paying respects to the dead within that graveyard.

I just figured I’d toss this video out there. Every Halloween, three things make me grit my teeth- expecting strangers to support your candy habit, disrupting the dead at haunted houses and ladies feeling like they need to dress up like a prostitute instead of something cool like a zombie or a banana without realizing those cool costumes would garner them much more attention than wearing barely anything at all. If you’re contemplating partaking in a haunted experience this Halloween, please think about the spirits that occupy that place and leave them in peace. We can’t keep saying โ€œrest in peaceโ€ without allowing that to happen. Think with your hearts and minds and not your egos. Thanks.

The 5 Types of People Every INFJ Should Avoid Like the Plague | Exploring the MBTI

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Firstly, it’s common sense not to mingle with evil people like unjustified murderers, child rapists, abusers, liars and snakes but we’re talking about your day to day average evil people in this video. INFJs are prone to hanging on. They hang on to love, loss, anger. Not because they’re petty but because they feel some sort of deep injustice over it. INFJs are all about justice. 

People to watch out for as an INFJ:

1) Soul vampires: many say Earth is the devil’s playground. Others believe the chosen ones are the very ones tested by Satan. Although I’m not religious, I get it. INFJs feel energy. Even if a person constantly plays the good guy yet gives you bad vibes every time you’re around them, heed that warning- it means you’re detecting the grime beneath the surface. You can’t help a soul sucker. No matter how great you are, these vampires have one thing on their radar- blood. 

2) One uppers: if a person’s ego is so big that they can never let you get the limelight, they need to GTFO. A truly secure person has no qualms letting you get a few golden stars too. Most of the time these one-uppers never even have ONE up on you let alone a laundry list of them.

3) Compulsive liars and deniers: it’s true that once you admit to a lie, all other truths are questioned. This diverts people from ownership. INFJ sees it a bit differently because, regardless of an admitted lie or a lifetime of truths, we always question you anyway. If you own your error, we recognize the bravery it takes to admit that fault and we can empathize with the intention behind the lie. It actually makes you more honest in our eyes. If somebody constantly blames others and never takes responsibility for their actions or lies, cut them loose. If you keep them around, you’re only enabling that behavior.

4) The irreparably broken: giving the benefit of the doubt is great and necessary but when a person’s past is repetitive, that’s a red flag. You can’t help people who refuse to budge to save themselves. One day you’ll be the one on that inflatable raft with a hole in it. Don’t expect them to plug that hole with their finger because the only thing on their mind is “hey at least it isn’t me”. 

5) Partiers: everybody likes a good party but the definition of a good party is a bit different with an INFJ. Loud people are obnoxious. People who’d rather go to some dark dingy bar over a walk by a river irritate many of us. It’s not because we’re looking down on you, we’re just wondering where your priorities are and where your soul lies. There are two types of people- the ones who live in the here and now and those who are forward thinkers based on past experiences. It’s a beautiful thing to stay in the present but without forethought for tomorrow or respect for yesterday, there is potential of getting stuck in the now.

See you next time for more unknown and cool facts about the beloved INFJ personality type.

11 Things You May Not Know About the INFJ | Exploring the MBTI

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Today starts our countdown series. For our first countdown, let’s talk the 11 things you may not know about the INFJ.

1) INFJs adore the purity of nature; it’s their god. Trees and the moon fascinate them.

2) INFJ loves rain and storms, just not for days on end. If it is days on end, their cabin fever will get to them and they’ll crawl out of their caves with ponchos and boots on.

3) INFJs understand and, on occasion, sympathize with criminality. With a clear view of all sides, they understand the hero and the villain.

4) INFJs have fiery tempers even if it takes a lot to get there, and they can be pretty judgy too.

5) They talk like a professor on a regular day but like a sailor on a bad one. 

6) INFJs mainly have dominant right brains, so you can find them reading, learning, creating or admiring.

7) They don’t have many friends and this isn’t due to not being likeable, it has to do with humans as a whole not utilizing their potential and INFJ finds it either annoying or disheartening.

8) INFJs have such respect for other beings that they soak in every detail and listen to every word. This explains the INFJ stare we’re all familiar with when they’re talking with humans.

9) Many, if not most, INFJs used to be an ENFJ but life has a way of altering a person’s perspective.

10) INFJs do celebrate holidays but they find them bizarre. Since they’re very into exploring the world around them and value depth over the shallow, they find most holidays materialistic and wasteful.

11) The reason INFJs love genealogy is their gratitude for their roots. Many INFJs possess extensive family trees they proudly built themselves.

If you’re here trying to gain a better understanding of the INFJ in your life, stay tuned to learn about the things you shouldn’t do around an INFJ and the five types of people every INFJ should avoid like the plague.

INFJ: ๐“ฃ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ ๐“ข๐“ฎ๐“ฎ๐“ญ๐“ต๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ฐ, The Basics of INFJ Intuition

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Today, we’ll be going over the bare-bones basics of the INFJ intuition, what intuition is, an example of how we use it in our everyday lives, and how it benefits us. Life is the best teacher, INFJ the perfect student. This comes from the natural empathy we possess and also our own experiences. Lots of INFJ’s have had rocky lives. Often times, it’s the deepest souls who feel the most and the INFJ’s depth surpasses oceans.

Intuition is defined as the ability to understand something immediately, without the need for conscious reasoning. Often, what we assume is intuition is really just speculation. True intuition is that gut instinct that comes on so strong, there’s no choice but to follow it and there is no questioning it. Out of all 16 MBTI types, the INFJ is more prone to this. This comes from a lot of people watching; self-reflecting; our understanding of higher realms, being and ideas; and our appreciation for absolutely everything- the good, bad and ugly.

For instance, this summer I got to watch my garden grow day by day, excited at the stages of plant life. I got to see baby moose and mama’s in their own skin in their own environments with their own priorities and dominant senses. I watched a bull moose suffer from brainworm and get shot twice right in front of me. I got to watch the birds at my five feeders all day, any day, everyday and study each of their songs and personalities. Everywhere I look, there’s so much beauty, so much magic and it honestly hurts when I realize not everybody is appreciating and respecting it. There is also so much darkness and lessons to be learned from it, brightness to be had if only we could be wise enough to see it. It’s bothersome to see litter by the lakes and in the forests, because I know those same litterers are the same people on Facebook everyday boasting about how much they love nature. If you love it, I tell my 4-year old niece, let it grow. This is a mantra we live by.

INFJs, we are the seed of a tree. Appreciated by those who need or respect us, crushed by those that don’t. We bud and it takes a while for us to bloom … But when we bloom….oooooh weee! If you’re going through a tough time right now, remember this- it takes a while but we always get there. The world may not see the preparation but they’ll surely see the show

The INFJ intuition is dictated by deep love, breathtaking appreciation and unshakable respect. We feel wrongdoings before the wrongdoer even realizes they F’d it up. We are able to see the mistakes of yesteryears and crave to make things right again but we get discouraged knowing many others need to step up too because, no matter how much we wish otherwise, we can’t go it alone. It takes a group of like-minded people to hold weight and cause some sway. The INFJ being safe in their solitude have trouble finding that group. The good news is, once we find the courage to plant the seed, the group finds us.

INFJ doesn’t need to pick up that litter and get constant praise. We do it because it needs to be done, because the thought of animals choking or getting hurt by it does not sit well with us, because we want children to get into nature and see how clean it is and grow to be passionate about keeping it that way. INFJ believes in doing the right thing whether someone is watching or not. Mankind’s past connection to nature has not been forgotten to INFJ and knowing how it once was blesses us with the gift of intuition.

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